Why are people so bitter? I mean, really holding on to the things people did to hurt them a long time ago and are seriously still angry about it! Months could have gone by and they still can't mention that person's name without turning red and saying something awful and condemning them to hell!
I can understand when something first happens and you're in the process of getting over it...but after a while you have to make a conscious effort to let it all go!
I've had my share of broken hearts and disappointments...but I can honestly say that I am not still upset about the things that have taken place. When I write it's to reflect on things I have experienced and actually overcame, never to dwell and mope over something that hurt my feelings.
Once I realize something is really over and done with...it's over and done with! There was only ONE time in my life when it took me a whole year and then some to get over someone...and that was my first real heartbreak so it was a learning experience.
The moment I realized I was ready to move on though, I did just that! I didn't look back, didn't put ALL men in that category, and I made sure to start with a clean slate.
Basically, life is way too short to be a sour apple, bitter b...(you know the song!lol) everyday of your life! There's so many things to be happy about! You're alive and well, you're beautiful/handsome, and you're in a position to love again!!
I say, tell whoever hurt you thank you...and count it as a lesson learned. Don't hate them, appreciate them!! (So cliche, but true)
LIVE GOING FORWARD!!!!!
~Alondra
Been reading your blogs and I really enjoyed this one. It took me awhile to get over my first heart break but when I did it was over and done with. No reason for people to be bitter and sad. Can't wait for your next post! -SugarKiss-
ReplyDeleteThank you so much!! I'm glad you enjoyed it!!!
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